Well for those of you who don't know, Me and Greg have been hoping for Eric, (Hayden and Shy's Bio dad) to give up his rights and let Greg adopt them. I asked him a long time ago, and he never actually said No, but it didn't sound very hopefull. About a week ago he called me saying he's put alot of thought into it and wants to go ahead a do it. This might sound bad, but I'm so happy that he's decided this way. He's never really been around for the kids except an occasional Holiday phonecall, and some alway's late gifts. He has been paying child support, but mostley because it comes straight out of his paychecks. The kids never ask about him, he's pretty much out of sight out of mind. The extra money will be missed, but It's toatally worth it. Greg is so excited to be able to Adopt Hayden and Shy. I truley believe that this is what were supposed to do and that everything happens for a good reason. Me and Greg have been back and forth about what he should do for work, weather he should re-enlist in the Airforce, or get out and persue other things. with the economy the way it is, and Greg not yet finished with his degree we've decided the best thing to do is re-enlist. This means probably having to move either out of state, or over seas, and defenetly more deployments for him. I'm terrified for either one of those things, but still feel good about our decision.
